We went via coach, overnight ferry with dinner and entertainment, to land in Zeebrugge for a short trip into Bruges for a day. Bruges was a beautiful tour from the medieval through to the eighteenth century, by foot, canal boat and horse gig, on narrow cobbled streets where the bicycle reigned in anarchic supremacy, tinging bells at you from all directions. There didn't seem to be any rights of way. Chocolates and Belgian beers predominated among the mighty gilded churches and the reis of the canals. It was stunning and a glorious day. The sea sunsets en route by boat overnight were astonishing, with real violets and pinks in the lights falling down into the water.
On board ship, the entertainment was varied, starting on the coach in from Hull with a Geordie stag group in full flight verbally and on the dancefloor (night one), by night two past cutting a caper, despite the live act's encouragement to stand up. Night one had been enlivened also by French, Russian and Dutch holidaymakers, uninhibitedly gallivanting about together and accompanied by some stately jiving from a few elderly English holidaygoers, whose blood was up. On night two, all these foreign influences had departed and only phlegmatic British northerners were left. Nobody danced, it being far too public out there to make a show of yourself. The singing duo, a lively pair of young women doing their best to drive some life into their attentive but silent audience asked, "Anyone from the South? London? The Midlands? No? All from the North? O.K. We'll take a short break now. Get some more drinks in from the bar, people!"
Everyone did but reserve was still in place. By the third set, the last dance invitation to 'all you loving couples out there' to at least stand up together, met with a similarly stony response. Amongst some clearly long wedded folk, there weren't any, it seemed, who felt they fitted that description. The stag Geordies were too far gone to do more than clap occasionally. Earlier, two perfectly hair helmeted woman, faces smoked into crevasses long since, had joined us sitting on the deck before dinner, to say they'd been coming for years, but only for the fags. They didn't like art or history, they told us firmly, when we asked how they had found Bruges, and in the past you had three choices of meat at the carvery. A poor do, these days, then, for them. Well, apart from the discount ciggies, that is.
Two teddies are now
Both in my keeping,
Gifts to toddler grandchildren, us.
When new, Bruin was purple, larger,
With a deep growl.
My brother's.
Teddy was smaller, fawn,
Mine.
He lost his growl after an unfortunate fall
And a sink bath.
I loved Teddy with a depth which included emotional guilt.
I was jealous because Bruin was bigger and purple
And my own ted must never know of that.
I was the oldest but the girl.
Perhaps that played into who got which bear.
Bruin is no longer purple,
Faded after decades on my brother's windowsills,
At home and in his flat.
For a few years now, both have looked down from
The high shelf beside my daughter's childhood raised bed.
They leaned together, slightly forward,
As if wanting to come down.
I climbed up to get them the other day and soon saw why.
Both lambswool, moths have pecked their back legs into small
bald patches.
It's been a poignant time as my mother has lately died too.
I felt I had let them down, the two teds,
Neglected while cherished still.
I've dusted them off and put them on the coverlet
Of the single bed below,
Where they seem more contented, two old men together.
Better now, their worn little faces seem to say.